[00:00.30]Chapter 3: Part One [00:02.46]Separation is normal [00:04.16]When asked why people break up [00:05.75]There is not one simple answer [00:08.05]A sense of self-knowledge and intentional awareness [00:11.09]Is a catalyst between the communication of two partners [00:14.11]Hoping to achieve emotional intimacy [00:16.56]But it can also expose desires [00:18.18]That are not shared between said partners [00:20.53]Sometimes relationships end [00:23.82]Because partners evolve over time [00:25.33]Sometimes relationships end [00:26.26]Because one partner does not feel deserving of love [00:29.51]Sometimes they end [00:30.56]Due to infidelity or due to thoughts of such actions [00:33.16]And sometimes, maybe more often than not, they just end [00:37.05]Similarly to people [00:38.07]Sometimes love can die unexpectedly [00:40.50]Because sometimes the ego of one partner can suffocate the shared joy [00:44.91]Everything ends [00:45.90] [00:47.27]I don't know where I stand [00:49.41]So just watch me fall apart [00:53.40]'Cause I know I break my hands [00:56.84]Just holding your heavy heart [01:00.95]Are we gonna be emotionally compromised [01:04.35]Or will we compromise emotion? [01:06.26]The hot and cold get old but the lukewarm we spit out [01:17.34]Are we gonna be totally on opposite sides [01:18.94]Or will we comprise our devotion? [01:22.54]I wanted to stay away from our usual form [01:25.92]But not live in doubt [01:27.92] [01:32.77]I don't wanna learn my lesson [01:36.22]I want to learn what this death is [01:39.82]I wanna know what being alive can feel like [01:44.67]And I'll be alright [01:48.92]Do you wanna understand? [01:52.78]Do you wanna be understood? [01:56.31]Can we somehow apprehend [01:59.57]Our love [02:00.48]Our hands [02:01.32]Our hearts are no good [02:04.79]We built these gallows [02:07.50]Before we knew what they were for [02:12.22]We're feeling shallow [02:14.03]I hope you know I don't want you to love me anymore [02:37.03] [02:42.54]So wear black at our wedding to mourn the loss of my dignity [02:48.66]And make sure our love is out of pure empathy [02:52.93]And not just misplaced pity [02:58.40]Do you wanna understand? [03:02.46]Do you wanna be understood? [03:05.72]Can we somehow apprehend [03:09.16]Our love [03:09.91]Our hands [03:10.67]Our hearts are no good [03:13.78]Do you wanna understand? [03:17.55]Do you wanna be understood? [03:21.27]Can we somehow apprehend [03:24.37]We'll fight [03:25.28]Our fight [03:26.04]And hide if we could [03:29.08] [03:30.11]"When asked if she could live without him, [03:32.15]She replied, [03:32.96]'Let me be your violent smile. [03:34.78]It might hurt, but you will look happy. [03:37.23]That is what I need. [03:38.63]I need to hurt you so you can be happy.'"