[00:00.205]Is that India. Arie? What happened to her hair? Ha ha ha ha ha [00:03.200]Dat dad a dat da [4x] Dad a ooh [00:12.944]Little girl with the press and curl [00:15.504]Age eight I got a Jheri curl [00:17.724]Thirteen I got a relaxer [00:20.362]I was a source of so much laughter [00:22.713]At fifteen when it all broke off [00:25.300]Eighteen and went all natural [00:27.886]February 2002 [00:30.263]I went and did [00:31.386]What I had to do [00:32.692]Because it was time to change my life [00:34.886]To become the women that I am inside [00:37.473]Ninety-seven dreadlock all gone [00:39.562]I looked in the mirror [00:40.973]For the first time and saw that hey.... [00:43.376]I am not my hair [00:45.832]I am not this skin [00:48.313]I am not your expectations no no [00:53.015]I am not my hair [00:55.549]I am not this skin [00:58.083]I am a soul that lives within [01:03.308]What'd she do to her hair? I don't know it look crazy [01:05.711]I like it. I might do that. Umm I wouldn't go that far. I know. Ha ha ha ha [01:11.745]Good hair means curls and waves [01:14.279]Bad hair means you look like a slave [01:16.708]At the turn of the century [01:18.694]It’s time for us to redefine who we be [01:21.228]You can shave it off [01:22.403]Like a South African beauty [01:23.735]Or get in on lock [01:24.911]Like Bob Marley [01:26.139]You can rock it straight [01:27.314]Like Oprah Winfrey [01:28.594]If it's not what's on your head [01:30.083]It’s what's underneath and say hey.... [01:32.147]I am not my hair [01:34.628]I am not this skin [01:37.006]I am not your expectations no no [01:41.891]I am not my hair [01:44.451]I am not this skin [01:47.220]I am a soul that lives within [01:51.895](Whoa, whoa, whoa) [01:52.679]Does the way I wear my hair make me a better person? [01:55.971](Whoa, whoa, whoa) [01:57.590]Does the way I wear my hair make me a better friend? Oooh [02:00.777](Whoa, whoa, whoa) [02:02.266]Does the way I wear my hair determine my integrity? [02:05.322](Whoa, whoa, whoa) [02:06.916]I am expressing my creativity. [02:09.188](Whoa, whoa, whoa) [02:10.573]Breast Cancer and Chemotherapy [02:12.820]Took away her crown and glory [02:15.144]She promised God if she was to survive [02:17.574]She would enjoy everyday of her life ooh [02:20.055]On national television [02:22.537]Her diamond eyes are sparkling [02:25.019]Bald headed like a full moon shining [02:27.213]Singing out to the whole wide world like hey... [02:30.766]I am not my hair [02:33.352]I am not this skin [02:35.833]I am not your expectations no no [02:40.457]I am not my hair [02:43.095]I am not this skin [02:46.073]I am a soul that lives within [02:50.384]I am not my hair [02:52.865]I am not this skin [02:55.373]I am not your expectations no no [03:00.075]I am not my hair [03:02.609]I am not this skin [03:05.117]I am a soul that lives within [03:08.722]If I wanna shave it close [03:09.897]Or if I wanna rock locks [03:11.177]That don't take a bit away [03:12.692]From the soul that I got [03:14.207]Dat da da dat da [4x] [03:18.361]If I wanna where it braided [03:19.719]All down my back [03:21.417]I don't see what wrong with that [03:23.428]Dat da da dat da [4x]